Step-by-step, result-focused processes to bring unconscious behaviour to light
Men’s wellbeing • unconscious shame • generational trauma
Porn addiction isn’t random. Nor does it happen in isolation.
It’s part of a family of disempowering thoughts, feelings and behaviours that includes all sexual dysfunction as well as other addictions, emotional unavailability and anxiety.
These issues dwell in our unconscious—a melting pot of fears, phobias, coping mechanisms, unhealed wounds and generational trauma—due to a fundamental disconnection from ourselves and from nature.
They’re in our unconscious because we are ashamed of them.
Carl Jung wrote that “Man’s task is to become conscious of the contents that press upward from the unconscious.”
What’s pressing upward from your unconscious?
“Michael has become a wonderful influence on my life. His guidance leads to a radically new but overwhelmingly true perspective.”
JD, Iowa, USA
Coaching
I provide outcome-focused 1-2-1 coaching using a range of process-oriented toolkits to help you bring the contents of your unconscious to light, for only there can you heal them.
All toolkits are available on a standalone basis.
Toolkits
No, you don’t need countless hours of coaching to trawl through all your stuff. You need a targeted process to terminate your unconscious addiction programming. This is it.
“Michael helped me to see that I was not a victim of porn, rather that porn was a very diverse communication tool to help me to see myself, acting like a mirror.”
CD, Canterbury, UK
We live in a society that’s historically been emotionally and sexually repressed. Releasing unconscious shame is the journey out of repression.
Do you want the bad news or the good news? A self-test to identify areas of unconscious shame—and opportunities for personal development—in your life.
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will rule your life and you will call it fate.”
Carl Jung
Many people are affected by inherited traumas like grief, shame and abandonment. A step-by-step process for understanding, identifying and releasing generational trauma.
The male collective unconscious is a swamp of ancient, toxic urges and unresolved traumas. A guide to identifying and clearing the ancestral traumas that underlie toxic masculinity.
“What we call ‘normal’ is a product of repression, denial, splitting, projection, introjection and other forms of destructive action on experience.”
R.D. Laing
When it comes to emotional wounds, the mother wound is “the mother of all wounds.” A framework for healing the core wound at the heart of mankind and each of us.
The journey from the genitals to the heart goes from a masculine- to a feminine-centric paradigm, from a narrow focus on penetrative sex towards emotionally healthy, self-regulated sexuality.
Evolution has been solving problems for billions of years using a simply strategy. Use it. This is a step-by-step process applicable to any problem to take you to the next level.
“Problems cannot be solved with the same level of thinking that created them.”
Albert Einstein
Endorsements
“THANK YOU for shining a light on this problem. More need to understand the reality of porn and sex addiction and the invitation to identify the deep human woundedness that drives people to these behaviors.”
Lauri Ann Lumby, OM, OPM, MATS
“Michael offers the partners of pornography-users a looking glass, window of opportunity to address their own sexual fears by encouraging conscious and open dialogue — to look at their own sexual wounds and encourage a new and healthier relationship.”
Cherie Roe Dirksen, self-empowerment author
“Michael is obviously a deep thinker and this combined with his rollicking writing style makes for an easy and entertaining read without losing the wonderful depth of meaning he offers us.”
Joan Morgan McCarthy, author of Peace and Harmony: Reenvisioning Sexuality Education
About
Hi, I’m Michael.
Welcome to my site.
I coach on next-level problem solving, unconscious shame and men’s wellbeing, including porn addiction.
I was an industrial software analyst for 25 years in New Zealand, America and the UK.
By applying process analysis skills to personal issues, I turned around my own emotionally toxic lifestyle.
For more read my About page.
News
How Porn Addiction Ruined My Life by Michael H Hallett | The Afro Ndiritu Podcast | #011
The title’s a bit dramatic, but I’m delighted to appear on Afro’s great podcast. Despite the topic, this is a humorous and wide-ranging talk about men’s wellbeing.
