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Hi, I’m Michael.

Welcome to my site.

I coach on next-level problem solving, unconscious shame and men’s wellbeing, including porn addiction.

I was an industrial software analyst for 25 years in New Zealand, America and the UK.

By applying process analysis skills to personal issues, I turned around my own emotionally toxic lifestyle.

For more read my About page.

“Michael is a genuinely good-hearted, unconventionally wise soul. His guidance leads to a radically new but overwhelmingly true perspective.”

— JD, Iowa, USA

“Michael helped me to see that I was not a victim of porn, rather that porn was a very diverse communication tool to help me to see myself, acting like a mirror.”

— CD, Canterbury, UK

How Porn Addiction Ruined My Life by Michael H Hallett | The Afro Ndiritu Podcast | #011

The title’s a bit dramatic, but I’m delighted to appear on Afro’s great podcast. Despite the topic, this is a humorous and wide-ranging talk about men’s wellbeing.