Are you sick of the treadmill of porn?

Do you hate that dirty, drained feeling at the end of a porn binge?

Do you feel ashamed of yourself because you’d rather watch porn than read bedtime stories to your kids?

I offer mentoring in the area of porn addiction and other issues related to male sexual wellbeing.

I chose the term ‘mentoring’ very carefully. Teachers teach to a set curriculum. Coaches instruct players. I’m more like a Sherpa on the slopes of Mount Everest.

I can help you get to where you want to—but you must be committed in the first place. That means committing time, money and—above all—the willingness to change. And you must assume responsibility for every step you take.

The first question on your mind is probably this one. So let’s get it over with.

How much does it cost?

The cost is £35 (approx. US$45) for a 30-minute session via Skype or Zoom.

How does it work?

It starts with a conversation where you tell me what’s going on. You’ll do most of the talking—at least to begin with. I’ll ask some questions, challenging you to look at your issue from a different angle.

Instead of seeing your issue as an impenetrable fog, my aim is to turn it into an IKEA furniture assembly drawing. Instead of seeing a single object, you see its component parts and how they function.

I will not tell you what to do, because it’s essential that you arrive at that decision for yourself.

Often there’s an ‘a-ha’ moment when the penny drops. At that point the session naturally terminates. If we run significantly under or over time we’ll factor that into the next call.

Here are my underlying Principles.

Data protection and confidentiality

I don’t take any notes from calls. The only data I keep are your name and email. (No, my email list is not for sale. See my About page for my policies.)

Everything you tell me is confidential. However, I am legally required to report any crimes I become aware of. If you are struggling with violent sexual urges or the urge to view violent or illegal pornographic material, please seek professional help.

What are you waiting for – another porn binge?

If you’re having issues with porn, need clarity, or just a soft place to fall and talk about stuff you feel you can’t discuss elsewhere, I’m here.

Once you’ve processed your payment via PayPal.Me, please drop me an email with your time zone and preferred dates/times for a call. I look forward to hearing from you.

To pay for mentoring, please click here:

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First name
Skype id
Time zone
Preferred dates/times
Describe your current porn use
How do you feel about your porn use?
What is your single biggest issue/concern/fear regarding porn?


Refer a client to me and you will receive an Amazon Gift Card for approximately 10% of the client’s initial sign-up value. Email me to let me know you’ve referred a client and when they sign up you’ll get an eGift Card in return.

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