The recent wave of sexual harassment claims and the #METOO Twitter campaign has changed the landscape of society. We can no longer ignore the evidence of widespread sexual dysfunction among men. The very public accusations against Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey and others are the tip of an iceberg of destructive behaviours, of which by far the largest is porn addiction.

If you’re visiting this site, that may include you.

Are you sick of the treadmill of porn?

Do you hate that dirty, drained feeling at the end of a porn binge?

Do you feel ashamed of yourself because you’d rather watch porn than read bedtime stories to your kids?

I offer a mentoring service specialising in issues with male sexuality, drawing on personal experience, my work on emotional intelligence programmes for schools and in the community, and my life coaching qualifications.

“I was seriously blown away by Michael’s book Pornography Addiction 101 – a brave, insightfully thought-provoking and well-researched publication that had me hooked from start to finish…”

Cherie Roe Dirksen, The Art of Empowerment

My approach is go beyond judgment and blame into compassion and understand the underlying emotional mechanics. Click on the button below for more information.

Pornography Addiction 101
A journey through the dark heart of porn addiction into the light of understanding beyond

“Having developed men’s health many years ago in my region in Australia I find that Mike’s book is most timely. Mike is obviously a deep thinker and this combined with his rollicking writing style makes for an easy and entertaining read without losing the wonderful depth of meaning he offers us. I suggest it is an essential read for all adults and especially men.”

Joan Morgan McCarthy, author of Peace and Harmony: Reenvisioning Sexuality Education

An exploration of the invisible prison of sexual shame using 33 films as case studies

Ascension foundations
Sustained personal development leads naturally into the process known in spiritual and New Age circles as Ascension. These posts introduce some of its key concepts and terms

“I would like to thank you for your 7 Ascension truths article. It is, without doubt, one of the best written, explanatory articles on the evolutionary process known as Ascension, humans (well, all life) are experiencing, I have yet to read.” — Patricia

Ascension toolkits
You’ll need to learn these tools to progress along the Ascension pathway

“Absolutely love the Ascension Toolkit of yours” — Tammi

Emotional toolkits
Simple and free emotional toolkits that you can use 24/7 to improve your wellbeing

When Chemistry goes Bang!
A primary school musical on the emotional roots of extreme behaviour